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Dating Someone With BPD
How to Handle Splitting, Support a Partner or Spouse With Borderline Personality Disorder, Set Boundaries Without Blowups, Protect Your Own Mental Health, and Decide Whether to Stay or LeaveBy Imad Muratspahic
Length3h 40m
About this audiobook
This morning they told you that you were the best thing that ever happened to them. By dinner you were the worst person they had ever met, and you still don't know what you did. You've started rehearsing sentences in the car, checking their face before you check your own feelings, and reading forum threads at night that tell you either to run or to love harder. Neither tells you what to do the next time it happens. Dating Someone With BPD: How to Handle Splitting, Support a Partner or Spouse With Borderline Personality Disorder, Set Boundaries Without Blowups, Protect Your Own Mental Health, and Decide Whether to Stay or Leave is written for you, the person on the other side of the split. Most books about borderline personality disorder are written for the person with the diagnosis, or for clinicians. This one is for partners, whether you're dating, living together, or married. It doesn't demonize the person you love, and it doesn't ask you to accept abuse as a symptom. It gives you plain explanations, words that work in the moment, and an honest way to decide what comes next. Inside, you'll learn: You can care deeply about someone with BPD and still protect yourself.
Audiobook details
GenrePsychology
Length3 hrs 40 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateOct 1, 2026
LanguageEnglish
Table of contents
1Dating Someone With BPD
2Important Notice
3Between 'Run' and 'Love Harder'
4Chapter 1: What BPD Is, and What It Isn't
5Chapter 2: Inside a Split: Why the Person Who Adored You Now Can't Stand You
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6Chapter 3: Where Symptoms End and Abuse Begins
7Chapter 4: When They Threaten to Hurt Themselves
8Chapter 5: In the Middle of a Split: What to Do and Say
9Chapter 6: Validation Without Surrender
10Chapter 7: Abandonment Panic: Texts, Jealousy, and Going Out
11Chapter 8: Boundaries, Not Ultimatums
12Chapter 9: Getting Them to Treatment Without Becoming the Therapist
13Chapter 10: Your Own Mental Health: Hypervigilance, Self-Doubt, and Exhaustion
14Chapter 11: Real Change or Another Round?
15Chapter 12: Stay, Change the Terms, or Leave
16Chapter 13: Leaving Without Losing Yourself: The Breakup and the Aftermath
17Steady Ground
18Quick Reference: Crisis Lines, Red Flags, Scripts, Glossary, and FAQ
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