Married to ADHD
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Married to ADHD

For the Non-ADHD Partner: Stop Parenting Your Husband or Wife, Fix the Chore Imbalance, Tell a Reason From an Excuse, Heal Spouse Burnout and Resentment, and Decide If It Is SustainableBy Imad Muratspahic
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Length3h 42m

About this audiobook

You love them. You also feel like their calendar, their alarm clock, and, on the worst days, their parent. The forgotten promises, the half-finished chores, the bills that slip, and the fights that start with one simple question have left you exhausted, lonely, and resentful, and quietly asking two things: is ADHD the reason or the excuse, and can this actually work? Married to ADHD is written for the non-ADHD partner. Most ADHD books speak to the person who has it, and most marriage books ignore executive function entirely. This book sits in that gap. It explains in plain language what is really happening in your partner's brain, then gives you systems, scripts, and boundaries that let you stop parenting and start partnering again, without pretending ADHD is fake and without pretending your needs do not count. It is not a medication manual, a cleaning routine for the partner with ADHD, a generic chore-splitting plan, or a divorce guide. It is about the relationship the two of you share, and one chapter is written directly to your partner, so you can read it together. Inside, you'll learn: You do not have to choose between compassion and self-respect.

Audiobook details

GenreSelf-Help
Length3 hrs 42 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateOct 1, 2026
LanguageEnglish

Table of contents

1Married to ADHD
2Important Notice
3When Love Isn't the Problem
4Chapter 1: Why They Can Hyperfocus for Hours but Can't Mail One Form
5Chapter 2: Reason or Excuse? Where ADHD Stops Explaining
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6Chapter 3: How You Became the Parent
7Chapter 4: One Calendar, One List, No Human Alarm Clock
8Chapter 5: Chores That Survive an ADHD Brain
9Chapter 6: Bills That Slip and Money That Vanishes
10Chapter 7: Their Treatment, Not Your Project
11Chapter 8: Fights That Go From Zero to Sixty
12Chapter 9: When It's More Than ADHD: Red Flags and Safety
13Chapter 10: Lonely Next to Someone Who Is Somewhere Else
14Chapter 11: Burnout, Resentment, and the Self You Misplaced
15Chapter 12: If You're the One With ADHD: A Chapter to Read Together
16Chapter 13: Can You Live With This? Deciding Whether It's Sustainable
17Partner, Not Parent
18Quick Reference: Tools, Scripts, Red Flags, and Help Lines
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