
AuDHD Emotional Regulation and Rejection Sensitivity Toolkit
Manage RSD, Meltdowns, Mood Swings and Overwhelm with Neurodivergent Affirming Strategies for Autistic ADHD AdultsBy Kieran Tina MilesLength7h 45m
About this audiobook
Living with both autism and ADHD means your brain runs two operating systems that often work against each other. One demands predictability while the other craves novelty. One needs sensory calm while the other chases stimulation. When these systems collide, the result is emotional overload that most resources never address because they were built for one condition, not both.
A Toolkit Built for the AuDHD Brain
This comprehensive guide delivers practical, evidence-based strategies designed specifically for adults navigating the unique emotional challenges of combined autism and ADHD. Every tool inside has been adapted for how AuDHD brains actually process emotions, sensory input, and social demands. No generic advice. No strategies that assume a neurotypical nervous system. Every chapter addresses the specific ways autism and ADHD amplify each other to create emotional responses that feel overwhelming, unpredictable, and impossible to control.
Understand and Manage Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria
RSD in AuDHD adults hits harder than in ADHD alone. The autistic tendency toward pattern recognition combines with ADHD emotional intensity to create a rejection response that feels physical, immediate, and all-consuming. Learn what happens in your nervous system during an RSD episode and how to interrupt the cascade before it takes over your thinking, your relationships, and your sense of self-worth.
Navigate Meltdowns, Shutdowns, and Emotional Flooding
Meltdowns and shutdowns are not choices. They are involuntary neurological events with specific warning signs and specific recovery needs. This book provides a three-phase response framework covering prevention, survival during an active episode, and structured recovery afterward. Includes crisis communication scripts, sensory regulation tools, and a personalized early warning system you can build around your own patterns.
Practical Tools Grounded in Neuroscience
Inside you will find body-based regulation techniques for moments when thinking strategies fail, a polyvagal framework adapted for AuDHD nervous systems, energy budgeting and burnout prevention systems, relationship communication strategies for partners and support networks, schema therapy and self-compassion approaches for the deep shame that often accompanies emotional dysregulation, and a complete guide to building a personalized regulation toolkit that fits your specific brain. Every strategy is grounded in published, peer-reviewed research from polyvagal theory, schema therapy, DBT, ACT, and current neuroscience. All citations are real, verifiable, and listed by chapter. This is not a book of platitudes or motivational quotes. It is a clinical-grade resource written in accessible language for the adults who need it most.
Audiobook details
GenrePsychology, Self-Help
Length7 hrs 45 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateFeb 3, 2026
LanguageEnglish
Table of contents
1AuDHD Emotional Regulation and Rejection Sensitivity Toolkit
2Preface
3Introduction: The Two Operating System Brain
4Chapter 1: Your AuDHD Emotional Blueprint
5Chapter 2: The Body Keeps the Score Card
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6Chapter 3: Naming What You Feel
7Chapter Conclusions
8Chapter 4: The Sensory Emotion Highway
9Chapter 5: Rejection Sensitivity Decoded
10Chapter 6: Brain Emergency Protocols
11Chapter 7: The Mood Weather System
12Chapter 8: Rewiring Your Inner Critic
13Chapter Synthesis
14Chapter 9: Emotions in Relationships
15Chapter 10: Burnout Proofing Your Emotions
16Chapter 11: Building Your Personal Toolkit
17Chapter 12: When You Need More Support
18Appendix A: Tool Index
19Appendix B: Toolkit
20Chapter 1: Two Operating Systems
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28Chapter 2: Your Nervous System Has Three Gears
29Chapter 3: The Feeling That Has No Name
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37Chapter 4: When The World Is Too Loud To Feel
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45Chapter 5: The Rejection Earthquake
46Chapter 6: Brain Emergency Protocols
47Chapter 7: The Mood Weather System
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