You Look Fine From Here
Silent burnout, the competence that hides it, and the way outBy Sela Marchetti
Length6h 7m
About this audiobook
Exhaustion does not always arrive as collapse. Sometimes it arrives as flawless performance, in people who answer within the hour and hand things in early.
Every system built to find people in trouble looks for absence, complaint or decline. You produce none of them. Which means the better you get at carrying it, the less evidence exists that anything is being carried.
You Look Fine From Here explains how competence became camouflage, why the reward for coping is more of what caused it, and why rest stopped working long before anything else did.
Then it does the part most books like this leave out. It gives you a way to measure where you actually are, using evidence that does not depend on how you feel, because how you feel is the instrument this thing has damaged.
And it gives you four moves. The first one costs two conversations.
No moralizing. No detoxes. No productivity theater.
Narrated by a digital voice.
Audiobook details
GenrePsychology, Self-Help
Length6 hrs 7 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateAug 30, 2026
LanguageEnglish
Table of contents
1Opening Credits
2Introduction. Filed Under Fine
3Chapter 1. Nobody Is Coming to Check
4Chapter 2. Why Collapse Is Easier to Treat
5Chapter 3. A Safe Pair of Hands
Show all chaptersShow less
6Chapter 4. You Learned This Early
7Chapter 5. The Person Who Never Misses a Deadline
8Chapter 6. The Second Job
9Chapter 7. The Performance Becomes the Person
10Chapter 8. What It Costs
11Chapter 9. Learning to See It
12Chapter 10. The Way Out
13Conclusion. What You Look Like From Here
Schluss mit NachrichtenMert Kendrick7h 11m$9.99 · $0.00
Done with the NewsMert Kendrick5h 58m$9.99 · $0.00
Wenn der Aufstieg ausbleibtNathan Lacey8h 30m$9.99 · $0.00
The Next Step Never CameNathan Lacey6h 41m$9.99 · $0.00
Angst mit AugenmaßGordon Rainsford,7h 41m$9.99
Afraid of the Right ThingsGordon Rainsford6h 21m$9.99
Die Kraft der tiefen GefühleMira Ellison3h 21m$4.99
Du wirst es zu spät merkenNadia Brandt5h 49m$4.99
Die Zuverlässigen sagen nichtsSela Marchetti6h 27m$4.99
Lange Tage, Kurze JahreAdam Vesey 5h 11m$4.99
Es lag nie am GehaltAlec Fenwick4h 6m$4.99
Alles gut. Der Ring widersprichtMalin Reuter3h 26m$4.99
Montag fang ich anHugh Garrow7h 56m$9.99
I’ll Start MondayHugh Garrow6h 42m$9.99
Von dir freigegebenMalcolm Ridge8h 6m$4.99
You Approved ThisMalcolm Ridge7h 2m$4.99
Du hast recht. Sagt die KI.Peter Vennor6h 17m$9.99
It Always Takes Your SidePeter Vennor5h 27m$4.99
Hören ist umsonst. Zuhören nicht.Cora Bendt7h 16m$4.99
Hearing Is Free. Listening Costs.Cora Bendt6h 17m$9.99
Level UpRob Dial7h 42m4.6 (3.3K)$26 · $0.00
As a JewSarah Hurwitz8h 36m4.6 (1.2K)$26 · $0.00
Saint Joan (Annotated)George Bernard Shaw6h 20m4.6 (1.2K)$1.20 · $0.00
Burn the HaystackJennie Young, PhD9h 30m4.6 (543)$29 · $0.00
Woman and the New Race (Annotated)Margaret Sanger6h 30m4.6 (1K)$1.99 · $0.00
Good InsideBecky Kennedy9h 55m4.5 (59.3K)$29 · $0.00
The Mis-Education of the NegroCarter Godwin Woodson5h 4m4.5 (29.4K)$1.20 · $0.00
Du Bois: EssaysW.E.B. Du Bois6h 22m4.6 (1.5K)$1 · $0.00
The North American Indian (Illustrated Edition)Edward S. Curtis, Frederick Webb Hodge5h 59m4.6 (1.4K)$2 · $0.00
Valley of the BirdtailAndrew Stobo Sniderman, Douglas Sanderson10h 1m4.6 (2.4K)$29 · $0.00
Lies My Therapist Told MeGreg E. Gifford9h 3m4.6 (503)$29 · $0.00
Disturbed in Their NestsAlephonsion Deng, Judy A. Bernstein11h 22m4.6 (595)$23 · $0.00
No Name in the StreetJames Baldwin5h4.5 (8.5K)$20 · $0.00
Narrative of the Life of Frederick DouglassFrederick Douglass4h 13m4.5 (309.9K)$1.20 · $0.00
Magic SeasonWade Rouse6h 41m4.6 (855)$24 · $0.00
Consent Laid BareChanel Contos7h 11m4.5 (1.7K)$24 · $0.00
The Big RevealSasha Velour6h 15m4.5 (2.1K)$24 · $0.00
EssaysGeorge Orwell26h 38m4.5 (8.4K)$4 · $0.00
Pastoral SongJames Rebanks8h 35m4.5 (12K)$26 · $0.00
Sitting PrettyRebekah Taussig7h 33m4.5 (18.9K)$26 · $0.00
Learning to PrayJames Martin13h 24m4.5 (3.4K)$33 · $0.00
Forever BoyKate Swenson9h 27m4.7 (5K)$29 · $0.00
You Are Worth ItKyle Carpenter, Don Yaeger8h 53m4.7 (4.8K)$29 · $0.00
The Happiest Man on EarthEddie Jaku3h 48m4.6 (178K)$7 · $0.00
Finding MeViola Davis9h 15m4.6 (256.4K)$29 · $0.00
Spiritual AnatomyDaaji Kamlesh D. Patel9h 47m4.7 (319)$29 · $0.00
The Dangerous Truth about Today’s MarijuanaLaura Stack CSP, MBA9h 57m4.7 (385)$20 · $0.00
The Gospel according to Spiritualism (Translated)Allan Kardec14h 39m4.6 (3.9K)$5.70 · $0.00
Birdie & HarlowTaylor Wolfe7h 50m4.6 (6.5K)$26 · $0.00
CrossroadsKaleb Dahlgren7h 56m4.6 (4.9K)$26 · $0.00
Life on the BridgeKaelynn Partlow5h 40m4.6 (1.1K)$24 · $0.00
Keep Your Love OnDanny Silk9h 4m4.6 (8.1K)$10 · $0.00
The Tao of Joy Every DayDerek Lin10h 24m4.6 (762)$20 · $0.00
UndividedVicky Beeching9h 2m4.6 (1.3K)$29 · $0.00
HE CAN WHO THINKS HE CAN & OTHER BOOKS ON SUCCESSOrison Swett Marden5h 54m4.6 (1.2K)$0.99 · $0.00
Level UpRob Dial7h 42m4.6 (3.3K)$26 · $0.00
Burn the HaystackJennie Young, PhD9h 30m4.6 (543)$29 · $0.00
ACRES OF DIAMONDS: Our Every-day Opportunities (Wisdom & Empowerment Series) (Annotated)Russell Conwell2h 26m4.6 (1K)$2 · $0.00
Good InsideBecky Kennedy9h 55m4.5 (59.3K)$29 · $0.00
The Lost VoiceGreta Morgan8h 30m4.7 (285)$26 · $0.00
You may also like
The Essays of Arthur Schopenhauer; Counsels and MaximsArthur Schopenhauer5h 57m4.4 (977)$1 · $0.00
Feeling GoodDavid D. Burns13h 21m4.2 (77.3K)$8 · $0.00
Let That Sh*t GoNina Purewal, Kate Petriw8h 4m4.0 (4.2K)$26 · $0.00
Thought PowerSri Swami Sivananda3h 52m4.4 (456)$3.50 · $0.00
The Wisdom of LifeArthur Schopenhauer3h 54m4.2 (32.8K)$1.20 · $0.00
As a Man ThinkethJames Allen53m4.3 (335.1K)$4 · $0.00
The Social Network TrapElijah C. Prescott2h 30m$2.30 · $0.00
The Roadmap to Personal FulfillmentSara Melo2h 10m$1.80 · $0.00
Tips to Boost Confidence Right NowTina Brown26m$10 · $0.00
A Time For HealingBrahma Khumaris1h 14m$5 · $0.00
Laughter, Lightness, LifeMason U. Delaney11h 51m$4.10 · $0.00
The Diet DetoxBrooke Alpert MS, RD, CDN5h 11m3.6 (46)$15 · $0.00
Hooked on MusclesHarrison E. McAllister4h 6m$4 · $0.00
Negative Emotions: Emotional Self Help for Controlling Negative Feelings (Complete Step by Step Guide to Transforming Your Negativity Into Positive Energy)Martin Dempsey1h 41m4.1 (20)$3.50 · $0.00
Find True LoveFalco Wisskirchen30m$17 · $0.00
Gedankenkarussell StoppenNORA ELIN FALKEN, Isabela Noemí Alvar, Umar6h 1m$6.50
Be and stay healthy - Subliminal-HypnosisMichael Bauer1h$35 · $0.00
Yoga: A New DirectionOsho14h 3m4.3 (42)$17 · $0.00
StoicismHarrison Walton1h 8m4.0 (73) Only with Ultra
Radical Weight LossDr. Birgit Zottmann48m$9 · $0.00