Length3h 5m
About this audiobook
Every relationship you have ever had is a mirror. Not of your intentions. Of your identity.
SELF is for the person who can see the pattern but can't stop running it. Who keeps attracting the same dynamic in a different face. Who knows something is operating underneath the surface — and hasn't yet faced it directly.
This book diagnoses the Relational Identity Gap: the distance between who you say you are in relationships and who actually shows up. It then installs the system that closes it — one component at a time, in sequence, at the level where the pattern actually lives.
Not insight. Identity. Because the gap doesn't close at the level of understanding. It closes at the level of daily evidence.
Audiobook details
GenreSelf-Help
Length3 hrs 5 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateSep 28, 2023
LanguageEnglish
Table of contents
1Title
13Chapter 6 When It Broke
2Dedication
14Chapter 7 Where This Shows Up
3This Book Is Not For You
15Chapter 8 The Relational Identity Gap Audit
4This Book Is For You
16Chapter 9 You Attract What Your Identity Can Hold
5Who I Have Seen This Work For
17Chapter 10 Self: It's On Me
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6The Laws of Self-Betrayal
18Chapter 11 Standards: What I Will and Won't Allow
7Prologue The Moment I Stopped Knowing Myself
19Chapter 12 Consistency: Who Shows Up Regardless
8Chapter 1 The Mirror Doesn't Lie
20Chapter 13 State: You Are the Environment
9Chapter 2 You Don't Have a Relationship Problem
21Chapter 14 Detachment: Love Without Losing Yourself
10Chapter 3 The Relational Identity Gap
22Chapter 15 The Sequence
11Chapter 4 What Happens When You Betray Yourself
23Chapter 16 The Invitation
12Chapter 5 The Version You've Been Protecting Is the Problem
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