Length3h 5m
About this audiobook
Every relationship you have ever had is a mirror. Not of your intentions. Of your identity.
SELF is for the person who can see the pattern but can't stop running it. Who keeps attracting the same dynamic in a different face. Who knows something is operating underneath the surface — and hasn't yet faced it directly.
This book diagnoses the Relational Identity Gap: the distance between who you say you are in relationships and who actually shows up. It then installs the system that closes it — one component at a time, in sequence, at the level where the pattern actually lives.
Not insight. Identity. Because the gap doesn't close at the level of understanding. It closes at the level of daily evidence.
Audiobook details
Rating★★★★ 4.1 (38)
Includes Goodreads
GenreSelf-Help
Length3 hrs 5 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateSep 28, 2023
LanguageEnglish
Table of contents
1Title
2Dedication
3This Book Is Not For You
4This Book Is For You
5Who I Have Seen This Work For
Show all chaptersShow less
6The Laws of Self-Betrayal
7Prologue The Moment I Stopped Knowing Myself
8Chapter 1 The Mirror Doesn't Lie
9Chapter 2 You Don't Have a Relationship Problem
10Chapter 3 The Relational Identity Gap
11Chapter 4 What Happens When You Betray Yourself
12Chapter 5 The Version You've Been Protecting Is the Problem
13Chapter 6 When It Broke
14Chapter 7 Where This Shows Up
15Chapter 8 The Relational Identity Gap Audit
16Chapter 9 You Attract What Your Identity Can Hold
17Chapter 10 Self: It's On Me
18Chapter 11 Standards: What I Will and Won't Allow
19Chapter 12 Consistency: Who Shows Up Regardless
20Chapter 13 State: You Are the Environment
21Chapter 14 Detachment: Love Without Losing Yourself
22Chapter 15 The Sequence
23Chapter 16 The Invitation
More from CJ O'Connell
Learning to PrayJames Martin13h 24m4.5 (3.4K)$33 · $0.00
Spiritual AnatomyDaaji Kamlesh D. Patel9h 47m4.7 (319)$29 · $0.00
The Dangerous Truth about Today’s MarijuanaLaura Stack CSP, MBA9h 57m4.7 (384)$20 · $0.00
Birdie & HarlowTaylor Wolfe7h 50m4.6 (6.5K)$26 · $0.00
CrossroadsKaleb Dahlgren7h 56m4.6 (4.9K)$26 · $0.00
Life on the BridgeKaelynn Partlow5h 40m4.6 (1.1K)$24 · $0.00
Keep Your Love OnDanny Silk9h 4m4.6 (8.1K)$10 · $0.00
The Tao of Joy Every DayDerek Lin10h 24m4.6 (762)$20 · $0.00
UndividedVicky Beeching9h 2m4.6 (1.3K)$29 · $0.00
Level UpRob Dial7h 42m4.6 (3.3K)$26 · $0.00
Burn the HaystackJennie Young, PhD9h 30m4.6 (543)$29 · $0.00
ACRES OF DIAMONDS: Our Every-day Opportunities (Wisdom & Empowerment Series) (Annotated)Russell Conwell2h 26m4.6 (1K)$2 · $0.00
Good InsideBecky Kennedy9h 55m4.5 (59.3K)$29 · $0.00
The Lost VoiceGreta Morgan8h 30m4.7 (285)$26 · $0.00
Stripped DownBunnie Xo8h 25m4.5 (32.9K)$26 · $0.00
UnthinkableJamie Raskin15h 8m4.5 (9.3K)$8 · $0.00
Wallace D. Wattles Ultimate Collection Wallace D. Wattles16h 53m4.6 (1.3K)$1 · $0.00
Inquire WithinIn-Q2h 18m4.6 (993)$16 · $0.00
Under His WingsEmily Compagno7h 16m4.6 (848)$22 · $0.00
Eat It!Jordan Syatt, Michael Vacanti4h 40m4.6 (1.5K)$20 · $0.00
You may also like
This Is How Your Marriage EndsMatthew Fray9h 15m4.2 (3.8K)$29 · $0.00
ManologyTyrese Gibson, Rev Run8h 18m4.0 (3.8K)$20
The Dance of ConnectionHarriet Lerner7h 5m4.2 (5.9K)$24 · $0.00
The Dance of ConnectionHarriet Lerner4h 39m4.3 (5.5K)$20 · $0.00
A Beautiful MindSylvia Nasar18h 10m4.2 (144.3K)$25 · $0.00
Life Is a Lazy Susan of Sh*t SandwichesJennifer Welch, Angie Sullivan5h 32m4.2 (4.6K)$24 · $0.00
Short StoriesColumbus Short3h 42m4.2 (2.2K)$15
A Dress the Color of the SkyJennifer Irwin10h 26m4.5 (457)$20
The TruthNeil Strauss16h 49m4.3 (9.3K)$40 · $0.00
Break Up On PurposeJohn Kim6h 26m4.3 (280)$24 · $0.00
Thomas Wingfold, CurateGeorge MacDonald17h 12m4.3 (1K)$2.30 · $0.00
The Death of Ivan IlychLeo Tolstoy2h 30m4.2 (283.3K)$2.30
Goodbye, ThingsFumio Sasaki4h 32m4.0 (55.6K)$20
And So It Is...Jamie Lynn Sigler9h 45m4.5 (876)$29 · $0.00
Father SergiusLeo Tolstoy1h 56m4.0 (6.6K)$2.30
The TouchstoneEdith Wharton4h 16m3.7 (2.3K)$2 · $0.00
DreamsellerBrandon Novak8h 1m4.3 (4.3K)$20 · $0.00
The Boy Grew OlderHeywood Broun6h 3m$2.30
Lies Don't Last Franklin Duap41m5.0 (7) Only with Ultra
How to Be AccountableFaith G. Harper PhD, Joe Biel5h 37m3.9 (517)$17