Marriage After Children
How Couples Find Each Other Again When the Kids Have Taken OverBy Dr. Marcus Fenwick
Length8h 27m
About this audiobook
Children can bring joy, purpose, and meaning to a marriage—but they can also place enormous pressure on a relationship. In *Marriage After Children*, therapist Dr. Marcus Fenwick draws on more than two decades of experience helping couples navigate the challenges of parenthood while preserving connection, intimacy, and partnership.
Many couples do not experience a dramatic relationship crisis. Instead, they slowly drift apart. Conversations become centered on schedules and responsibilities. Physical affection declines. Emotional connection weakens. Over time, partners may begin to feel less like spouses and more like roommates managing a household together. Fenwick explores how this drift develops and why it is far more common than most couples realize.
The book identifies several patterns that frequently emerge after children enter the picture, including emotional distance, loss of intimacy, resentment over unequal responsibilities, and conflicts about money and parenting. Fenwick explains the underlying causes of these issues, from chronic sleep deprivation and shifting identities to differing expectations about marriage and family life.
Rather than offering simplistic solutions, the book provides practical strategies couples can use to reconnect. Readers will learn how to rebuild emotional intimacy, communicate more effectively during conflict, manage resentment before it becomes entrenched, and restore physical closeness in ways that feel natural and sustainable. Special attention is given to the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire, helping couples better understand the realities of intimacy in long-term relationships.
The book also includes structured tools such as relationship reviews, guided conversations, and a step-by-step plan for rebuilding connection over time. These resources are designed to help couples create meaningful change without adding unnecessary pressure to already busy lives.
For couples who feel disconnected, stuck, or uncertain about the future of their relationship, *Marriage After Children* offers a compassionate and practical roadmap for finding each other again and building a stronger marriage for the years ahead.
Audiobook details
GenreSelf-Help
Length8 hrs 27 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
LanguageEnglish
Table of contents
1Introduction
2Introduction: The Marriage You Forgot You Were In
3Chapter 1: The Marriage-After-Kids Drift
4Chapter 2: What’s Actually Happening (Not What You Think)
5Chapter 3: The Division of Invisible Labor
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6Chapter 4: The Resentment Ledger
7Chapter 5: Scheduled Intimacy That Doesn’t Feel Scheduled
8Chapter 6: The Date Night That Doesn’t Fix Everything
9Chapter 7: The Conversation About Sex
10Chapter 8: The Bedroom That’s Become Storage
11Chapter 9: The Boss-Wife
12Chapter 10: The Disengaged-Dad
13Chapter 11: The Parallel Parenting Trap
14Chapter 12: The In-Law Conversation Reframed
15Chapter 13: Money Fights
16Chapter 14: The Move You Both Want But Won’t Take
17Chapter 15: The Move You Both Regret
18Chapter 16: Weekend Brain vs. Weekday Brain
19Chapter 17: The Friendship That Supports Your Marriage
20Chapter 18: The Friendship That Erodes Your Marriage
21Chapter 19: How Teenagers Change the Marriage
22Chapter 20: Empty-Nest Preparation Begins Now
23Chapter 21: When Therapy Actually Helps
24Chapter 22: Staying Married for the Long Haul
25Conclusion: A Letter to the Couple Who Made It This Far
26Appendix A: A Quarterly Marriage Review
27Appendix B: The Repair Conversation
28Appendix C: Resources for Specific Situations
29Appendix D: The First Ninety Days
30Appendix E: Twenty Questions to Ask Your Spouse
31Appendix F: A Note for Single Parents and Step-Parents
32Appendix G: A Brief Note About Faith
33Appendix H: A Note for the Spouse Who Is Worried
34Appendix I: A Note for the Spouse Who Has Drifted
35Appendix J: Final Thoughts on Marriage as a Life Project
36Appendix K: A Letter to the Couple in Year One
37Appendix L: A Note on Reading This Book Together
38About the Author
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