Unlearning to Lead
Why the Habits That Built Your Career Are Quietly Holding You Back and What to Do About ItBy Paul Bangsten
Length2h 9m
About this audiobook
Think back to the last meeting someone dominated from the first minute. Loud, fast, opinionated on everything — and by the end, everyone knew what they thought and almost nothing about what they could actually do. Somewhere quieter in that same room was someone still practicing the habit that got them their first promotion twenty years ago: filling every silence, proving themselves constantly, leading from the front no matter the cost.
Audiobook details
GenreBusiness and Economics, Self-Help
Length2 hrs 9 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateAug 4, 2026
LanguageEnglish
Table of contents
1Introduction
12CHAPTER SIX
2CHAPTER ONE
13The Power of Deliberate Restraint
3The Loudest Person in the Room
14CHAPTER SEVEN
4CHAPTER TWO
15When to Speak and When to Wait
5Strategic Silence
16CHAPTER EIGHT
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6CHAPTER THREE
17The Long Game of Quiet Influence
7The Listener's Edge
18CHAPTER NINE
8CHAPTER FOUR
19Building Your Invisible Network
9Observing Before Acting
20CHAPTER TEN
10CHAPTER FIVE
21The Background Effect in Practice
11Presence Without Performance
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