1Dedication
48Consequences of Staying
2Nihil Obstat
49Brain Damage Symptoms
3Psychometric Instruments and Assessments
50Domestic Violence Inventory
4Foreword by William E. Krill, Jr.
51Chapter 10 – A Man’s Account
5Introduction: Trashing What We Thought We Knew
52Chapter 11 – Child Abuse Treatment
6Chapter 1 – Disintegration of Life
53Chapter 12 – Treatment of Adult Survivors
7Larry – Growing up Abused
54Borderline Personality Disorder
8The Statistical Evidence
55Mental Illness as Reaction to Craziness
9A New Developmental Model
56The Indestructible Soul
10Survival Needs
57Sense of Purpose Absolutely Required
11The Sense of Becoming
58Recalling Traumatic Events
12Power and Self-Esteem
59Reliance on the Holy Spirit
13Why Celebrities Become Drug Addicts
60Dangers of False Spirituality
14Young People Become Their Peers
61Dealing with Impossible People
15Chapter 3 – The Lies Implanted by Abuse
62Therapist Qualifications
16Sexual Abuse
63Chapter 13 – A New 7-Step Program
17Laura’s Story
64Advantages of Group Therapy
18Sexual Abuse of Boys
65Critical Importance of Safety
19The Bottom Line of Any Type of Abuse
66Abusers as Predators
20Secrecy
67Tracing the Wires and the Inner Voice
21Test for Concealed Child Abuse
68The Shortcomings of Twelve-Step Programs.
22Epidemic Proportions of Abuse
69What Are the Twelve Steps?
23Chapter 4 – Physical Abuse
70The New 7-Step Program
24Head Injury
71The Lord’s Prayer
25Shaken Baby Syndrome
72Prayer to the Holy Spirit
26Abdominal Injuries
73The 7 Steps
27Scourging
74Chapter 14 – Special Populations
28My Own Personal Case
75Cultural Deprivation
29Punching and Other Violence
76Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
30Chapter 5 – Terrorizing
77Alcoholics and Other Addicts
31A Brother and Sister
78Legalize Doctors, Not Drugs
32The Bedwetting Boy
79Prostitutes
33Adolescent Cases
80Souls Starving in Church
34Death of a Terrorist
81Not Criticizing All Protestants
35Chapter 6 – Parentification
82Truth as Food for the Soul
36Debbie: 20-Year-Old Anorexic
83Remembering the Jewish People
37Children of Alcoholics
84Chapter 15 – The Dangerous Student
38Chapter 7 – Abuse at School
85Student Critical Symptoms Questionnaire
39Sexual Harassment
86Substance Abuse Test for Resistant Students or Employees
40Insult as Control
87Chapter 16 – Workplace Violence: Test for Potentially Dangerous Employees
41Misdiagnosis of Behavior
88Chapter 17 – The Falsely Accused: Victims in the Truest Sense
42Chapter 8 – Neglect and Rejection
89Victims in the Truest Sense
43Researching Neglect
90Defense Interrogatories for Lying Accusers
44Rejection
91References
45Chapter 9 – Domestic Abuse
92About the Author
46Signs of the Abuser
93Index
47Why Women Stay