1Chapter 1: Am I an A-Hole Husband?
34Chapter 6: The Nagging–The Damn Nagging
2Chapter 2: STFU!
35Signs You’re A Nagging Hubby
3Why Your Brain Is Not Your Best Friend
36How Do I Stop Being A Nagging Hubby?
4What Sir Isaac Newton Can Teach Us
37Chapter 7: Fight Fair
5More Isn’t Better
38How Do You Fight Fair in Your Marriage?
6Silence Doesn’t Equal Agreement
39Tips for Fighting Fair with Your Wife
7The Folly of Having the Last Word
401. Do not bring up the past
8What If Silence Makes Me Appear Weak?
412. Address issues promptly and on time
9Chapter 3: Make Her Numero Uno, Starting RIGHT NOW
423. There are no losers or winners in marital spats
10Sure-fire Ways to Stop being an A-hole and Make Your Wife Feel Like A Priority
434. Say “I am Sorry” when you are wrong
111. Be present when your wife needs you
445. Never assume things
122. Be on time for engagements
456. Negotiate an ideal time to talk
133. Ask her how she’s feeling, often
467. Do not criticize
144. Reassure her
478. Do not label her
155. Be thoughtful
489. Do not drift off-topic
166. Take part in her interests
4910. Do not discuss your fight and the details surrounding it with any other person
177. Never EVER forget her/your special days
501. Make a point to listen to her truly
188. Give her your undivided attention
511. Make a point to listen to her truly
199. Make a habit of surprising her
522. Show her kindness every passing day
2010. Keep the romance alive
533. Plan a special date for two
2111. Ask your wife for help; she’s your partner, after all
544. Verbally affirm to her that you do love and care for her
2212. Never, ever compare her to anybody
555. Do something random and unexpected
23Chapter 4: Be Present
566. Remember: physical touch can (and will) say a lot to her
24The Importance of Being Present and How to Be More Present with Your Wife
577. Help her
251. Intentional conversation
58Chapter 9: SEX
262. Touch
59Things Men Do In Bed That Women (Including Your Lovely Wife) Hate
273. Pay close attention to the different ways you can bond throughout the day
601. Pay close attention to her non-verbal cues during sex
284. Make time for fun!
612. Foreplay and after-play
29Chapter 5: Listen! Listen! Listen!
623. Explore those commonly ignored hot spots
30The Payoffs Of Actually Listening To Your Wife
634. Clitoral stimulation
31Listen to yourself as you listen
645. Worship her, not just her orgasm
32Use silence & postpone your response
65Conclusion
33Remember that understanding does not mean you agree
66Notes