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Meditation Without the BS

An Honest Guide for People Who’ve Tried and Quit Three Times AlreadyBy Vincent OkOnjO

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Many people begin meditation with good intentions only to abandon the practice weeks later. They download an app, follow a popular course, or try a highly recommended technique, yet somehow it never becomes a lasting habit. In *Honest Meditation Guide for Beginners Who Tried and Quit*, contemplative scholar Vincent Okonjo challenges the idea that some people simply are not suited for meditation. Instead, he argues that most failures result from poor fit, unrealistic expectations, inadequate guidance, or choosing the wrong practice for a particular stage of life. Drawing on more than twenty years of teaching contemplative traditions, Okonjo offers a clear and accessible exploration of the major meditation approaches practiced around the world. Rather than promoting a single method, he introduces readers to focused attention, open awareness, analytical meditation, devotional practices, loving-kindness meditation, and several traditions drawn from Buddhist, Hindu, Christian, and Sufi teachings. The book helps readers identify which approaches may align best with their personalities, goals, and life circumstances. It also addresses common reasons people abandon meditation, including boredom, frustration, unrealistic expectations, poor instruction, and uncomfortable emotional experiences that arise during practice. Unlike many popular meditation books, Okonjo provides a balanced discussion of scientific research, acknowledging both the benefits and limitations of current evidence. He avoids exaggerated claims and instead presents meditation as a long-term practice that develops gradually over months and years. Readers will also learn how to evaluate teachers, avoid unhealthy communities, recognize situations where meditation may not be appropriate, and build a sustainable daily practice without becoming dependent on apps, streaks, or rigid routines. This book is designed for people who have already tried meditation and felt disappointed by the results. By offering a broader understanding of contemplative traditions and a more realistic approach to practice, it provides a thoughtful and encouraging path toward developing a meditation habit that is both meaningful and sustainable.

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GenreSpirituality and Religion, Self-Help

Length9 hrs 44 mins

Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices

FormateBook with Audio

Publish dateJun 4, 2026

LanguageEnglish

1Introduction: Why You’re Reading This Book Again

2Chapter 1: Why You Quit the Last Three Times

3Chapter 2: The Bad Teachers and Bad Books That Wasted Your Time

4Chapter 3: The Meditation Styles and Which Fits Which Person

5Chapter 4: Buddhist-Derived Mindfulness — Vipassana and Theravada

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6Chapter 5: Zen and the Koan Tradition

7Chapter 6: Tibetan Analytical Meditation

8Chapter 7: Secular Meditation — Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction

9Chapter 8: Transcendental Meditation — The Honest Take

10Chapter 9: Christian Contemplative Prayer

11Chapter 10: Sufi Practices

12Chapter 11: Hindu Mantras and the Popular Adaptations

13Chapter 12: Metta — LovingKindness Practice

14Chapter 13: Open Awareness

15Chapter 14: Focused Attention — The Foundational Skill

16Chapter 15: Body Practices — Yoga, Tai Chi, Qigong, Walking

17Chapter 16: Building a Daily Practice

18Chapter 17: Building a Weekly and Monthly Practice

19Chapter 18: Retreats — When, Where, How, and How to Survive Them

20Chapter 19: How to Find a Teacher Without Getting Culted

21Chapter 20: When Not to Meditate

22Chapter 21: The First Year

23Chapter 22: The Tenth Year and the Long Practice

24Chapter 23: Meditating Through Grief, Illness, and Dying

25Chapter 24: Practice and the Rest of Your Life

26Chapter 25: A Realistic Picture of What This Can and Cannot Do

27Appendix A: A Reading List for the Contemplative Life

28Appendix B: A Glossary of Terms

29Appendix C: Sample Weekly Schedules

30Appendix D: Troubleshooting Common Difficulties

31Appendix E: A Final Note from the Author

32Appendix F: A Skeptic’s Guide to the Science

33Appendix G: For Those Who Have Been Hurt

34Appendix H: Closing Thoughts on the Field

35Appendix I: Specific Practice Instructions

36Appendix J: Frequently Asked Questions

37Appendix K: Meditation for Specific Life Situations

38Appendix L: A Letter to the Reader Who Has Finished

39Appendix M: A Year of Daily Prompts

40Appendix N: Notes on the Major Teachers Worth Knowing

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