Difficult Conversations at Work

The Talks You’re Avoiding and How to Have Them WellBy Ezra Whitcomb
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Length10h 20m

About this audiobook

Difficult Conversations at Work is a practical communication guide for professionals, managers, and leaders who want to handle challenging workplace discussions with confidence and professionalism. Drawing on years of executive coaching and corporate leadership experience, Ezra Whitcomb explores why difficult conversations are often delayed and how avoidance creates larger problems over time. From performance feedback and salary discussions to resignations and workplace conflict, the book provides a framework for addressing issues directly while preserving dignity and trust. The book covers more than twenty common workplace situations, including giving feedback, receiving criticism, asking for a raise, managing underperformance, delivering bad news, reporting misconduct, and setting boundaries with colleagues and supervisors. Each chapter explains the psychology behind these conversations and offers practical strategies for navigating them effectively. Readers will learn how to stay calm under pressure, prepare for emotionally charged discussions, communicate clearly, and focus on solutions rather than blame. The book also emphasizes active listening, accountability, and respect, helping professionals build stronger relationships even during difficult interactions. Designed for both new managers and experienced leaders, this guide transforms workplace communication from a source of stress into a valuable leadership skill. Whether leading a team or managing upward, readers will gain the confidence to handle conversations that many people avoid.

Audiobook details

GenreBusiness and Economics, Self-Help
Length10 hrs 20 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateJun 4, 2026
LanguageEnglish

Table of contents

1Introduction — The Conversations You’re Paying Interest On
2Chapter 1 — The Conversations You’re Paying Interest On
3Chapter 2 — The 24-Hour Rule
4Chapter 3 — The Difference Between Feedback and Venting
5Chapter 4 — Firing Someone With Dignity
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6Chapter 5 — Being Fired With Dignity
7Chapter 6 — The Performance Review You Dread
8Chapter 7 — Asking for a Raise
9Chapter 8 — Asking for a Promotion
10Chapter 9 — Declining a Promotion
11Chapter 10 — Negotiating a Counteroffer
12Chapter 11 — Telling Your Boss They’re Making a Mistake
13Chapter 12 — The Conversation About Your Work That Hurt
14Chapter 13 — The Conversation About a Peer Who Isn’t Pulling Weight
15Chapter 14 — Reporting Harassment or Discrimination
16Chapter 15 — The Resignation Conversation
17Chapter 16 — Staying When You Said You’d Leave
18Chapter 17 — Delivering a Layoff That Isn’t Yours
19Chapter 18 — Receiving Feedback Without Defending
20Chapter 19 — Apologizing in a Way That Lands
21Chapter 20 — The Conversation About Mental Health
22Chapter 21 — Setting a Boundary With a Higher-Up
23Chapter 22 — When the Conversation Doesn’t Work
24Appendix A — Scripted Walkthrough: Firing a Long- Tenured Underperformer
25Appendix B — Scripted Walkthrough: Asking for a Significant Raise
26Appendix C — Scripted Walkthrough: Pushing Back on a Misaligned Senior Decision
27Appendix D — Scripted Walkthrough: Receiving Tough Feedback About Your Leadership
28Appendix E — Scripted Walkthrough: Resigning When the Relationship Is Complicated
29Appendix F — Sentences to Have on Your Tongue
30Appendix G — Scripted Walkthrough: Reporting a Senior Colleague’s Misconduct
31Appendix H — Scripted Walkthrough: Declining an Internal Opportunity Without Closing the Door
32Appendix I — Scripted Walkthrough: Confronting a Peer About a Pattern
33Appendix J — Frequently Asked Questions From the Last Decade
34Appendix K — Scripted Walkthrough: A Performance Review Where the Rating Surprises
35Appendix L — Scripted Walkthrough: The Conversation About Hygiene, Style, or Personal Presentation
36Appendix M — Scripted Walkthrough: The Conversation About a Personal Crisis at Work
37Appendix N — A Note on Practice Across Time
38Appendix O — Scripted Walkthrough: Renegotiating a Project After Conditions Change
39Appendix P — Scripted Walkthrough: The Conversation About Compensation Equity
40Appendix Q — Scripted Walkthrough: Telling a Trusted Colleague You Cannot Continue to Cover for Them
41Appendix R — Scripted Walkthrough: The Conversation About Returning to the Office
42Appendix S — Scripted Walkthrough: A Conversation You Wish You Did Not Have to Have
43Appendix T — On the Particular Difficulty of the First Conversation
44Appendix U — Notes for Particular Roles
45Appendix V — Closing Notes from the Coaching Notebook
46Appendix W — A Final Word on the Practice

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