Why Your Confidence Is Mostly an Illusion

Why Your Confidence Is Mostly an Illusion

By Vera Mitchell
Michael Caine
Listen with Sir Michael Caineā„¢ and 1,000+ voices
Length47m

About this audiobook

Self-assurance is so often just performance masking deep insecurity, and genuine confidence looks nothing like what society celebrates and rewards with admiration. This brutally honest examination reveals how true confidence actually emerges from demonstrated competence, acceptance of limitations, and comfort with inevitable uncertainty in life. Discover exactly why appearing confident and being confident are fundamentally different psychological states that shouldn't be confused or conflated with one another ever.

Audiobook details

GenrePsychology, Self-Help
Length47 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateDec 5, 2025
LanguageEnglish

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