6YOUR STORY WITHIN THE STORY
72SHARE YOUR CONTRIBUTION
7FOUR DISTORTED STORIES THAT KEEP YOU PRISONER
73MODULE 7: KNOW YOUR ROLES
8WHAT STORY WILL YOU TELL?
74YOU ARE NOT YOUR ROLE
9THE DIVIDED LIFE
75MAPPING YOUR ROLES
10THE 'NEVER AGAIN' MOMENT
76MODULE 8: YOUR RELATIONSHIPS -- THE RELATIONAL ATOM
11SELF-DIFFERENTIATION: THE LEADER'S INNER WORK
77RELATIONSHIP REFLECTION
12THE CREDIBILITY FACTOR
78THE FATHER WOUND
13WHY A MOVIE?
79THE MOTHER WOUND
14THE SEARCH FOR MEANING
80COVENANT VS. CONTRACT
15THE THREE STATES OF MIND -- FINDING WISE MIND
81THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP
16EMOTIONS ARE NOT YOUR ENEMY
82THE ART OF SELF-VALIDATION
17THE AIRPLANE METAPHOR
83INTERPERSONAL EFFECTIVENESS: DEARMAN
18WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT
84CIRCLES OF TRUST
19MODULE 1: THE FIVE PILLARS OF MEANING
85BUILDING YOUR OWN VILLAGE
20THE AUTOMATIC SELF
86MODULE 9: VISION AT SEVENTY-FIVE -- YOUR EULOGY & OBITUARY: WRITE YOUR OBITUARY
21YOUR WINNING STRATEGY
87MODULE 10: MY TEN-YEAR PLAN
22THE WRONG MAP
88DAILY DISCIPLINES & BOUNDARIES
23PILLAR 1: THE DIVINE CENTER
89MY STORY SUMMARY AT THIS POINT
24PILLAR 2: A COMPELLING PURPOSE
90MODULE 11: MY FIVE-YEAR PLAN
25PILLAR 3: A SMART TRIBE
91DAILY DISCIPLINES & BOUNDARIES
26PILLAR 4: A PROPHETIC IMAGINATION
92MY STORY SUMMARY AT THIS POINT
27PILLAR 5: THE STORIES YOU ARE
93MODULE 12: MY ONE-YEAR PLAN
28MODULE 2: HERO ON A MISSION
94DAILY DISCIPLINES & BOUNDARIES
29YOUR LIFE AS A MOVIE: WHY THIS MATTERS
95MY STORY SUMMARY AT THIS POINT
30THE FOUR CHARACTERS
96MODULE 13: GOAL SETTING WORKSHEETS
31THE RESEARCH FOUNDATION
97THE FIVE KEYS TO SETTING AND ACHIEVING GOALS
32THE SHADOW MISSION
98CIRCLE OF INFLUENCE VS. CIRCLE OF CONCERN
33THE PSYCHOLOGY OF THE SHADOW MISSION
99THE POWER OF BABY STEPS
34GRASSHOPPER OR GIANT?
100MANAGE YOURSELF
35THE EXISTENTIAL QUESTION
101PRIMARY TASKS WITH DEADLINES
36IDENTIFY YOUR CHARACTERS
102MODULE 14: YOUR RULE OF LIFE & DAILY DISCIPLINE
37YOUR STORY SUMMARY
103DESIGN YOUR DAILY RHYTHM
38MODULE 3: THE EXAMEN -- YOUR LIFE LEAVES CLUES
104THE FRANKL QUESTION
39FIRST DECADE (Ages 0-10)
105THINGS I GET TO ENJOY TODAY
40SECOND DECADE (Ages 11-20)
106MY LIFE THEME AS DECISION FILTER
41THIRD DECADE (Ages 21-30)
107MY DAILY DISCIPLINES
42FOURTH DECADE (Ages 31-40)
108THE FIVE Fs -- A FRAMEWORK FOR WHOLENESS
43FIFTH DECADE (Ages 41-50)
109STAYING STRONG -- REDUCING EMOTIONAL VULNERABILITY
44SIXTH DECADE AND BEYOND (Ages 51+)
110SELF-SOOTHE WITH THE FIVE SENSES
45MODULE 4: LIFE TURNS & REDEMPTIVE PERSPECTIVE
111OPPOSITE ACTION -- CHANGING EMOTIONS BY CHANGING BEHAVIOR
46THE GUIDANCE OF CLOSED DOORS
112RADICAL ACCEPTANCE
47YOUR LIFE THEME
113IMPROVE THE MOMENT
48MODULE 5: LISTENING TO THE VOICE OF VOCATION
114THE THREE DISCIPLINES
49THE FOUR CLARITIES
115MODULE 15: THE 30-DAY NAVIGATIONAL CHALLENGE Part 1
50YOUR NAVIGATIONAL PLAN -- PERSONAL MISSION STATEMENT
116MODULE 15: THE 30-DAY NAVIGATIONAL CHALLENGE Part 2
51STEP 1: IDENTIFY YOUR CORE VALUES
117MODULE 16: COMMITMENT & NEXT STEPS
52STEP 2: DEFINE YOUR ROLES
118STANDING IN THE TRAGIC GAP
53STEP 3: SET ROLE-BASED GOALS
119THE FORMULA FOR CHANGE
54STEP 4: DRAFT YOUR MISSION STATEMENT
120THE THREE PHASES OF TRANSITION
55GUIDED MISSION STATEMENT EXERCISE
121THE FIVE Cs OF FLYING
56LET YOUR LIFE SPEAK
122HEADWINDS AND TURBULENCE
57HOW DO I PERFORM? -- A SELF-ASSESSMENT
123THE FOUR STAGES OF LEARNING
58MODULE 6: BECOMING THROUGH VOCATION -- YOUR CONTRIBUTION
124DIALECTICAL THINKING -- THE POWER OF BOTH-AND
59WHAT IS A VOCATION?
125THE FINAL PRIMER -- CONSOLIDATION
60YOU ARE NOT YOUR FUNCTION
126MY COMMITMENT
61ANATOMY OF A GREAT CONTRIBUTION
127REVISED PERSONAL MISSION STATEMENT
62THE WORK BEFORE THE WORK
128MY FINAL STORY SUMMARY
63STEP 1: IDENTIFY YOUR PORTFOLIO OF STRENGTHS
129GOD IS SOVEREIGN -- AND YOU ARE FREE
64THREE GIFT CATEGORIES
130REFERENCES & RECOMMENDED READING
65KNOW WHAT YOU ARE NOT GOOD AT
131ABOUT THE AUTHOR
66BECOME A SOLUTION, NOT A PROBLEM
132ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
