6Chapter 4: Finding Your Self - The Calm, Compassionate Core
28Step 2: Invite Parts Input
7Section II: Mapping Your System (Weeks 3-4)
29Step 3: Interview Each Part Separately
8Chapter 5: The Parts Mapping Exercise
30Step 4: Look for Creative Solutions
9Step 2: Get Curious About Each Part For each part you identify, ask yourself:
31Step 5: Test Internal Consensus
10Step 3: Understand the Part's History Try to trace each part back to its origins:
32Step 6: Make the Decision from Self
11Step 4: Identify Relationships Between Parts Notice how your parts relate to each other:
33Step 7: Create Implementation Support
12Chapter 6: Common Parts Everyone Has
34Chapter 14: Relationships Through an IFS Lens
13Chapter 7: How Parts Interact and Conflict
35Chapter 15: Maintaining Self-Leadership
14Chapter 8: Recognizing Blended States
36Step 1: Recognize the Takeover
15Section III: Dialogue and Healing (Weeks 5-6)
37Step 2: Pause and Ground
16Chapter 9: How to Talk to Your Parts
38Step 3: Ask Parts to Step Back
17Chapter 10: Negotiating with Protectors
39Step 4: Access Self-Qualities
18Step 1: Acknowledge Their Good Intentions
40Step 5: Respond from Self
19Step 2: Understand Their Specific Concerns
41Step 6: Follow Up with Parts
20Step 3: Validate Their Historical Experience
42Chapter 16: Your Ongoing IFS Practice
21Step 4: Assess Current Reality Together
43References
22Step 5: Negotiate New Agreements