Length50m
About this audiobook
Choosing who you have a child with may be the most important decision of your life.
And one of the most costly mistakes you can make is believing parenthood will change someone who has never shown the character to sustain it.
Too many people ignore red flags, hoping:
He’ll mature when the baby comes
Responsibility will transform him
Love will make him step up
Fatherhood will awaken something in him
But parenthood does not create discipline, empathy, patience, or accountability.
Audiobook details
GenrePsychology, Science and Nature
Length50 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateApr 21, 2026
LanguageEnglish
Table of contents
1Pre Face
2Introduction
3Chapter 1 Avoids Responsibility in Other Areas of Life
4Chapter 2 Shows Little Empathy
5Chapter 3 Has a Pattern of Abandoning Commitments
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6Chapter 4 Only Values the “Fun” Parts of Relationships
7Chapter 5 Poor Emotional Regulation
8Chapter 6 Financial Irresponsibility
9Chapter 7 Disrespects or Resents Children
10Chapter 8 Unresolved Trauma / Immaturity With No Desire to Grow
11Chapter 9 History of Neglecting Existing Children
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