Length1h 53m
About this audiobook
Are you enjoying your relationship — or enduring it?
ESCAPE BULLET is the book that says it for you — and then goes further. Further than most relationship books will go. Into the agony of abusive marriages and the psychology of why we chose the person who was capable of that agony. Into the specific profiles of the people you should never choose as a partner — the angry, the addicted, the financially chaotic, the serially unfaithful, the values-incompatible, the narcissist. Into the anatomy of the narcissistic husband and the narcissistic wife, chapter by chapter, with clinical precision and pastoral honesty.
And further still — into the God-designed architecture of what a thriving relationship actually looks like. Genesis 2:24–25. Ephesians 5:22–33. One flesh. Naked and not ashamed. Roles and submission read honestly rather than weaponised selectively. Intimacy, accountability, sex, radical candour, and the daily work of building something that lasts.
Audiobook details
GenreChristian & Inspirational, Psychology
Length1 hr 53 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateOct 21, 2026
LanguageEnglish
Table of contents
1Title Page
2Epigraph
3A Note on the Title — Choose Yours
4Introduction — The Wound That Has a Name
5PART ONE
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6Chapter 1 — Why Smart People Make Terrible Choices in Love
7Chapter 2 — Who Not to Choose — The Ten Profiles
8Chapter 3 — Patterns, Family History, and the Wound That Chooses for You
9Chapter 4 — Values, Purpose, and Incompatibility — The Slow Death No One Sees Coming
10Chapter 5 — The Place of Parents — Parental Influence and the Case for Arranged Marriage in the Modern World
11PART TWO
12Chapter 6 — One Flesh — The Biblical Blueprint for Intimacy
13Chapter 7 — Roles, Submission, and Mutual Glory
14Chapter 8 — Unity, Openness, Candour, and Unashamed Honesty
15Chapter 9 — Accountability and Sex — The Two Things No One Talks About Honestly
16PART THREE
17Chapter 10 — The Anatomy of a Narcissistic Husband
18Chapter 11 — The Anatomy of a Narcissistic Wife
19Chapter 12 — Loving a Narcissist — What It Does to You
20PART FOUR
21Chapter 13 — The Uses of Separation — What Moses and the Bible Actually Say
22Chapter 14 — Living with a Difficult Spouse — 1 Peter 3:1–9 and the Long Obedience
23Chapter 15 — Abuse Is Not a Covenant — Drawing the Line
24PART FIVE
25Chapter 16 — Why Marriages End — Evidence from Global Divorce Research
26Chapter 17 — The Hardness of Heart — What Jesus Said and What It Means
27Chapter 18 — The True Cost of Divorce — Children, Money, Soul
28PART SIX
29Chapter 19 — Healing from a Failed Marriage — The Road Back to Yourself
30Chapter 20 — Guidelines to Forestall Repetition — Before You Love Again
31Epilogue — The Marriage You Were Made For
32Bibliography and Further Reading
