1Preface
11Part III: Rewriting the Rules
2Part I: Understanding the Game
12Chapter 8: Breaking the Cycle
3Chapter 1: What Is the Game?
13Chapter 9: Teaming Up
4Chapter 2: The Players
14Chapter 10: Beyond Romance
5Chapter 3: The Rulebook No One Reads
15Chapter 11: Winning Together
6Part II: Playing the Game
16Chapter 12: A Game Worth Playing
7Chapter 4: When the Game Begins
17Last Word
8Chapter 5: Where It Happens
18Addendum
9Chapter 6: Why It Feels Unfair
19Referenced Individuals
10Chapter 7: Common Moves and Mistakes
