
Stop fighting! Should you intervene in a sibling fight?
By Nicole Prieur, Isabelle GravillonLength2h 31m
About this audiobook
That's life. it is often difficult for parents to see their children fighting as if this highlights their serious failure as educators. And yet it is the most normal thing in the world. In fraternal relationships, moments of complicity and love alternate with periods of rivalry and hatred. We must accept the quarrels, which are indispensable for children to grow and assert themselves. This book helps parents to adopt a certain distance and answers questions such as: * What triggers the fights? * Should we let them happen? * What do they bring to the children? * Why are they so hard for us to bear? * How do we avoid jealousy among children? * Should we intervene when they hit each other? * How do we...?
Audiobook details
GenreSelf-Help
Length2 hrs 31 mins
Narrated byListen with 1,000+ voices
FormateBook with Audio
Publish dateDec 30, 2020
LanguageEnglish
Table of contents
1Introduction
2INTRODUCTION
3Chapter 1: THE HEAVY BURDEN OF THE MYTH OF BROTHERHOOD
4■ The age of the impeccable family
5■ A myth that comes from afar
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6■ The importance of childhood
7■ A reality necessarily confronted
8■ The inevitability of conflict
9■ The figure of parents as guarantors
10The essentials
11Chapter 2: A BROTHER, AN INTRUDER
12■ The first-born who is dispossessed
13■ The need for recognition
14■ The eternal second
15■ Crossing of gazes
16■ The rebirth of rivalry during adolescence
17■ Are large families vaccinated against jealousy?
18■ Different positions, different challenges?
19■ Reconstituted families: obligatory hatred?
20The essential
21Chapter 3: LOVE IN THE FRATERNAL BOND
22■ A common generational level
23■ A relational laboratory
24■ What do we play at?
25■ High-level fraternity
26■ Adulthood
27The Essentials
28Chapter 4: PARENTS: WHEN THE UNCONSCIOUS SPEAKS
29■ What my children say about my story
30■ What my children say about my partner
31■ Beware of the obvious!
32■ Stormy relationships
33■ Reject the accusations
34The Essential
35Chapter 5: IN PRAISE OF FIGHTING
36■ A call for change
37■ A battle for position
38■ Listen to us!
39■ Mixed levels
40■ Constructive fights
41■ The right to fight
42The Essentials
43Chapter 6: THE COURAGE TO INTERVENE
44■ To intervene is to innovate
45■ When to intervene
46■ The risks of not intervening
47■ Frozen image
48■ The particular case of adolescents
49■ The courage to intervene
50■ The time for words